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Run a family meeting to make a big care decision together. Use when asked help me run a family meeting about care, we need to decide together about mom's care, my siblings and I disagree about our parent, or facilitate a care decision. Produces an agenda and structure for the meeting, how to prepare (facts, options, everyone's input), ground rules to keep old family dynamics from derailing it, how to include the person being cared for, ways to work through disagreement toward a decision, and clear next steps with owners. Not legal, medical, or financial advice.

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# Care-Decision Family Meeting

Big care decisions — where a parent lives, what care they need, who pays, who does what — bring out every old family dynamic, and often end in a fight, a stalemate, or one exhausted person deciding alone and resenting it. A structured family meeting changes that. This gives you the agenda, preparation, ground rules, and facilitation to make it a shared, informed decision — including the person being cared for — with clear next steps. Not legal, medical, or financial advice.

> **Not quite this?** Use `decision-meeting-format` when it is a work decision meeting, not a family's decision about care.

## What This Skill Produces

- **A meeting agenda** — a clear structure (the situation, the options, everyone's input, working to a decision, next steps) so it doesn't spiral
- **Preparation** — the facts, options, and information to gather beforehand (a meeting without shared facts is just an argument), and getting everyone's views in advance
- **Ground rules** — norms to keep old sibling dynamics, blame, and one loud voice from derailing it (one person speaks at a time, focus on the parent's needs, no re-litigating history)
- **Including the person** — how to involve the one being cared for in the decision about their own life, to the extent they can
- **Disagreement navigation** — ways to work through the common conflicts (who does more, who pays, differing views on the parent's needs) toward an actual decision
- **Next steps with owners** — concrete actions, who does what, and when to revisit — so the meeting produces action, not just talk
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