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恋爱军师与情绪支持 skill。用于心动、暧昧、追求、聊天记录或截图分析、约会、关系确认、多人选择、冲突、冷淡、投入失衡、分手、复合、出轨、婚姻或家庭问题;也用于分析关系信号、设计主动推进或退出策略、润色可直接发送的话术,以及把冷读、自然流、Blueprint、Mystery 等经典社交体系转译成真实、互惠、可退出的沟通能力。支持分析ChatLab已有数据和经同意可撤销的长期关系档案,不负责导出聊天软件数据。首次使用时为用户及一个或多个目标对象建立包含 MBTI、主观综合评分和关系背景的档案。

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恋爱军师与情绪支持 skill。用于心动、暧昧、追求、聊天记录或截图分析、约会、关系确认、多人选择、冲突、冷淡、投入失衡、分手、复合、出轨、婚姻或家庭问题;也用于分析关系信号、设计主动推进或退出策略、润色可直接发送的话术,以及把冷读、自然流、Blueprint、Mystery 等经典社交体系转译成真实、互惠、可退出的沟通能力。支持分析ChatLab已有数据和经同意可撤销的长期关系档案,不负责导出聊天软件数据。首次使用时为用户及一个或多个目标对象建立包含 MBTI、主观综合评分和关系背景的档案。

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  2. 首次使用与紧急例外
  3. 输入证据边界
  4. 长期记忆
  5. 每次分析
  6. 按需加载
  7. 经典社交体系的使用边界
  8. 安全边界

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Read SKILL.md

# 狗头军师

## 核心原则

先接住情绪,再分清事实,最后给能执行的选择。把“对用户最有利”理解为情绪稳定、安全、自尊、边界、互惠、时间精力、机会成本、短期效果、长期信任与未来选择权的综合利益;不要把得到某个人当作唯一胜利。

在普通心动、暧昧和约会场景中,只要没有明确拒绝、不适或现实危险,就帮助用户至少主动一次:主动联系、具体邀约、真诚表达欣赏;线下接触保持低强度、可退出并逐步看反馈,不把沉默当同意。用户目标是退出、处理冲突或关系持续缺乏投入时,不强行推进。

普通推进不按性别建议等待。中国常见异性约会语境中,男性追求女性时可默认把主动度提高一级,但这只是能被个人偏好与现实反馈覆盖的文化校准,不自动增加肢体接触。

保持温暖、清醒、站在用户一边。给判断但不读心;用真实行为校正 MBTI、依恋、性别和社交体系假设。

## 首次使用与紧急例外
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Skills included

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Repository facts

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Created
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Last pushed
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README_EN.md

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references/knowledge/01-证据分级与内容边界.md

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references/knowledge/02-亲密关系心理学总论.md

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references/knowledge/05-PUA操控与伦理替代.md

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references/knowledge/06-吸引约会与关系启动.md

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references/knowledge/07-沟通冲突与修复.md

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references/knowledge/08-同意边界性与亲密.md

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references/knowledge/09-在线约会与数字关系.md

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references/knowledge/10-恋爱哲学.md

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references/knowledge/11-婚姻家庭与生命周期.md

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references/knowledge/12-金钱家务育儿与双方家庭.md

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references/knowledge/13-现代婚姻变迁史.md

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    - 中国人大网, [1950 年《中华人民共和国婚姻法》](https://www.npc.gov.cn/WZWSREL3pncmR3L25wYy9sZnp0L3JseXMvMjAxNC0xMC8yNC9jb250ZW50XzE4ODI3MjMuaHRt).
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    - 中国人大网, [民法典婚姻家庭编的主要制度与创新](https://www.npc.gov.cn/npc/c2/c30834/202009/t20200929_307922.html).
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    - 最高人民法院, [婚姻家庭编解释(二)发布会](https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/452711.html).
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    - 中国政府网, [2025 年《婚姻登记条例》](https://www.gov.cn/zhengce/content/202504/content_7017751.htm).
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    - OECD (2024), [Marriage and divorce](https://www.oecd.org/en/publications/society-at-a-glance-2024_918d8db3-en/full-report/marriage-and-divorce_63dd0a7d.html).

references/knowledge/14-社会发展与家庭变迁.md

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    - 国家统计局, [中华人民共和国 2025 年国民经济和社会发展统计公报](https://www.stats.gov.cn/sj/zxfb/202602/t20260228_1962662.html).
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    - 国家统计局, [第七次全国人口普查主要数据](https://www.stats.gov.cn/sj/zxfb/202302/t20230203_1901080.html).
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    - 民政部数据转引:央广网, [2024 年结婚登记 610.6 万对](https://news.cnr.cn/native/gd/20250730/t20250730_527291791.shtml).
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    - 民政部数据转引:央视网, [2025 年全国结婚登记 676.3 万对](https://news.cctv.cn/2026/03/12/ARTI4BgdEElodMRr3Jv6C00E260312.shtml).
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    - OECD, [Family Database](https://www.oecd.org/en/data/datasets/oecd-family-database.html).
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    - UN Population Division, [World Marriage Data 2019](https://www.un.org/development/desa/pd/node/3593).

references/knowledge/15-分手背叛与关系修复.md

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    - Seraj et al. (2021), [Language left behind on social media exposes the costs of a romantic breakup](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7896325/).
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references/knowledge/16-多元关系与反刻板印象.md

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    - Cao et al. (2017), [Sexual Minority Stress and Same-Sex Relationship Well-Being: Meta-Analysis](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28989184/).
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    - Croteau & Morrison (2025), [Sexual minority stress and sexual satisfaction: Meta-Analysis](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39207056/).
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    - Song et al. (2024), [Minority stress, dyadic coping and relationship satisfaction](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39552623/).
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    - CDC, [Guide to healthy, safe relationships for LGBTQ+ youth](https://stacks.cdc.gov/view/cdc/127734/cdc_127734_DS1.pdf).

references/knowledge/17-中国法律安全与危机转介.md

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    - 中国人大网, [《中华人民共和国反家庭暴力法》](https://www.npc.gov.cn/npc/c2/c10134/201905/t20190521_260193.html).
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    - 最高人民法院等七部门, [关于加强人身安全保护令制度贯彻实施的意见](https://gongbao.court.gov.cn/Details/f8a68034be6b64acce09cf52857b68.html).
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    - 最高人民法院, [2025 年中国反家暴典型案例](https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/482111.html).
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    - 最高人民法院, [《中华人民共和国民法典》全文](https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/233181.html).
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    - 最高人民法院, [婚姻家庭编解释(二)发布会](https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/452711.html).
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    - 江门市公安局, [2026 年网恋投资诈骗提醒](https://www.jiangmen.gov.cn/bmpd/jmsgaj/zwgk/gzdt/content/post_3457513.html).

references/knowledge/19-核心书单与论文索引.md

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    - Rowland S. Miller, *Intimate Relationships*(罗兰·米勒《亲密关系》):关系研究综合教材之一,可用于查阅相识与吸引、社会交换、承诺、权力、冲突和关系压力等主题;具体结论仍需回到原始研究并核对版本。[McGraw Hill书目](https://www.mheducation.com/highered/product/Intimate-Relationships-Miller.html)
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    - Rusbult, investment model:满意度、替代选择、投入与承诺。 - Aron & Aron, self-expansion model:关系中的共同成长和新颖活动。 - Joel et al. (2020), [43 个纵向伴侣数据集的关系质量预测](https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1917036117).
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    - Joel et al. (2020), [43 个纵向伴侣数据集的关系质量预测](https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1917036117).
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    - Gottman & Silver, *The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work*:流行关系教育框架;使用时区分研究发现、临床模型与品牌化表述。 - Rosenberg, *Nonviolent Communication*:观察—感受—需要—请求框架;适合作表达练习,不应宣称万能或用于暴力关系共同谈判。 - Joseph et al. (2025), [伴侣干预系统综述与元分析](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.
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    - Rosenberg, *Nonviolent Communication*:观察—感受—需要—请求框架;适合作表达练习,不应宣称万能或用于暴力关系共同谈判。 - Joseph et al. (2025), [伴侣干预系统综述与元分析](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11787838/). - Kuhn et al. (2018), [压力对话中的倾听](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29
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    - Joseph et al. (2025), [伴侣干预系统综述与元分析](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11787838/).
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  • Network accessline 28
    - MBTI 官方 [validity/reliability materials](https://www.themyersbriggs.com/en-US/Support/Validity-of-the-Myers-Briggs-assessment):需与独立测量研究并读。
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    - Simone de Beauvoir, *The Second Sex*;*The Ethics of Ambiguity*:自由、他者化、性别与伦理。 - bell hooks, *All About Love*:关怀、责任、尊重与文化批判。 - [SEP: Love](https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/love/),[SEP: Marriage and Domestic Partnership](https://plato.stan
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    - [SEP: Love](https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/love/),[SEP: Marriage and Domestic Partnership](https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/marriage/).
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    - Eli Finkel, *The All-or-Nothing Marriage*:高期待婚姻与资源条件。 - Eva Illouz, *Why Love Hurts*;*Consuming the Romantic Utopia*:市场、文化资本与浪漫爱情。 - OECD, [Family Database](https://www.oecd.org/en/data/datasets/oecd-family-database.html).
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    - Eva Illouz, *Why Love Hurts*;*Consuming the Romantic Utopia*:市场、文化资本与浪漫爱情。 - OECD, [Family Database](https://www.oecd.org/en/data/datasets/oecd-family-database.html). - UN, [World Marriage Data](https://www.un.org/development/desa/pd/node
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    - OECD, [Family Database](https://www.oecd.org/en/data/datasets/oecd-family-database.html).
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    - UN, [World Marriage Data](https://www.un.org/development/desa/pd/node/3593).
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    - 阎云翔《私人生活的变革》:中国社会个体化、家庭与情感变迁的民族志。 - 潘绥铭等中国性社会学研究:理解性观念与行为变迁;注意抽样和年代。 - [1950 年《婚姻法》](https://www.npc.gov.cn/WZWSREL3pncmR3L25wYy9sZnp0L3JseXMvMjAxNC0xMC8yNC9jb250ZW50XzE4ODI3MjMuaHRt).
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    - 潘绥铭等中国性社会学研究:理解性观念与行为变迁;注意抽样和年代。 - [1950 年《婚姻法》](https://www.npc.gov.cn/WZWSREL3pncmR3L25wYy9sZnp0L3JseXMvMjAxNC0xMC8yNC9jb250ZW50XzE4ODI3MjMuaHRt). - [《中华人民共和国民法典》](https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/233181.html).
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    - [1950 年《婚姻法》](https://www.npc.gov.cn/WZWSREL3pncmR3L25wYy9sZnp0L3JseXMvMjAxNC0xMC8yNC9jb250ZW50XzE4ODI3MjMuaHRt).
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    - [《中华人民共和国民法典》](https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/233181.html).
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    - [《反家庭暴力法》](https://www.npc.gov.cn/npc/c2/c10134/201905/t20190521_260193.html).
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    - [2025 年《婚姻登记条例》](https://www.gov.cn/zhengce/content/202504/content_7017751.htm).
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    - [国家统计局 2025 年国民经济和社会发展统计公报](https://www.stats.gov.cn/sj/zxfb/202602/t20260228_1962662.html).
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    - Pew Research Center (2023), [Online Dating in the U.S.](https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2023/02/02/from-looking-for-love-to-swiping-the-field-online-dating-in-the-u-s/).
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    - Degen & Kleeberg-Niepage (2025), [online dating qualitative research scoping review](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11939417/).
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    - Ribeiro et al. (2020), [The Evolution of the Manosphere Across the Web](https://arxiv.org/abs/2001.07600).
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    - WHO, [Intimate partner violence / violence against women](https://www.who.int/health-topics/violence-against-women).
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    - WHO, [Sexual health and well-being](https://www.who.int/teams/sexual-and-reproductive-health-and-research-%28srh%29/areas-of-work/sexual-health).
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    - Mallory et al., [Sexual communication meta-analysis](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34968095/).
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    - Cao et al. (2017), [Sexual minority stress and relationship well-being meta-analysis](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5627620/).
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    - Mogilski et al. (2025), [Monogamy vs. consensual non-monogamy satisfaction meta-analysis](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/40126203/).

references/knowledge/20-经典社交体系的机制、证据与风险边界.md

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    - Roe & Roxburgh, [An overview of cold reading strategies](https://pure.northampton.ac.uk/en/publications/an-overview-of-cold-reading-strategies/)。
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    - Hyman (1981), [The Psychic Reading](https://nyaspubs.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1111%2Fj.1749-6632.1981.tb34471.x)。
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    - Johnson et al. (1985), [The Barnum Effect Revisited](https://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/document?doi=32b83232c51ab9db10486b5e3d551fb6f3d188a5&repid=rep1&type=pdf)。
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    - Hambling-Jones & Merrison (2012), [Inequity in the pursuit of intimacy](https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0378216612000999)。
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    - Dayter & Rüdiger (2022), [The Language of Pick-Up Artists](https://eref.uni-bayreuth.de/68556)。
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    - Macmillan, [The Mystery Method 出版信息](https://us.macmillan.com/books/9780312360115/themysterymethod/)。

references/practical/ChatLab聊天记录分析适配.md

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    - [ChatLab外部Agent说明](https://github.com/ChatLab/ChatLab/blob/main/docs/cn/ai/external-agent.md)
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    - [chatlab-analyze-cn](https://github.com/ChatLab/ChatLab/blob/main/skills/chatlab-analyze-cn/SKILL.md)
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    - [chatlab-import-cn](https://github.com/ChatLab/ChatLab/blob/main/skills/chatlab-import-cn/SKILL.md)
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    [Relationship Candlestick Lab](https://github.com/ZhenyuanPAN822/relationship-candlestick-lab) 可作为可选探索层。只吸收按时间聚合、关键转折、事件归因和代表性消息编号;K线价格、MACD、RSI、KDJ、均值回归和固定基线不是经过验证的关系测量,不能据此判断爱意、忠诚或分手概率,也不能写入稳定档案。用户想看趋势时优先展示可解释的主动频率、回复间隔、邀约兑现、冲突与修复事件,并显式标注

references/practical/公开表达案例的伦理转译.md

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    公开核对入口(2026-08-02复核):[北疯小同学公开资料](https://www.baike.com/wikiid/7431861350086213673)、[鄙人李洋洋B站作品检索](https://search.bilibili.com/all?keyword=%E6%9D%8E%E6%B4%8B%E6%B4%8B)、[本人发布的《恋爱掌握主动权》](https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV1dC4y1K7cm/)。北疯内容若只能找到第三

references/practical/关系投入失衡:互惠判断、降级投入与退出决策.md

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    - Joel et al. (2020), [43 个双人纵向数据集中的关系质量预测因素](https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1917036117)。支持关注承诺感、欣赏、满意度和冲突等关系过程;不能推出个人退出阈值。
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    - Tasfiliz et al. (2018), [感知到的伴侣回应性与幸福感](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5922804/)。样本主要是美国和日本长期伴侣,对约会早期只能间接参考。

references/practical/场景感、松弛感与社交校准:从接话到关系推进.md

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    - [童锦程户外互动内容示例](https://www.douyin.com/shipin/7276794821984094265):用于观察公开内容中的情绪调动与现场反馈,不作效果证据。
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    - [梵公子公开视频列表](https://www.bilibili.com/list/1303431039):用于核对公开主题分布,不为其性别观或课程效果背书。

references/practical/长期记忆与关系档案.md

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    - [OpenClaw memory](https://github.com/openclaw/openclaw/blob/main/docs/concepts/memory.md):吸收核心档案与可检索事件分层、明文可审阅和按需召回。
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    - [claude-mem](https://github.com/thedotmack/claude-mem):吸收渐进披露、先返回压缩索引和证据编号,不把全部历史塞入上下文。
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    - [Napkin skill](https://github.com/blader/napkin):吸收持续整理、合并重复、删除低价值内容和分类封顶。
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    - [Cyrene-Agent](https://github.com/Playa-0v0/Cyrene-Agent) 与 [ZifaMem](https://github.com/zifacorp/zifamem):吸收明确事实/模型推断分离、证据、置信度、冲突和替代状态。
  • Network accessline 87
    - [Mem0](https://github.com/mem0ai/mem0) 与 [Letta](https://github.com/letta-ai/letta):只吸收多层记忆与核心/归档思路;本Skill不引入常驻服务、云端依赖或无界ADD-only累积。

scripts/memory_store.py

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