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恋爱军师与情绪支持 skill。用于心动、暧昧、追求、聊天记录或截图分析、约会、关系确认、多人选择、冲突、冷淡、投入失衡、分手、复合、出轨、婚姻或家庭问题;也用于分析关系信号、设计主动推进或退出策略、润色可直接发送的话术,以及把冷读、自然流、Blueprint、Mystery 等经典社交体系转译成真实、互惠、可退出的沟通能力。支持分析ChatLab已有数据和经同意可撤销的长期关系档案,不负责导出聊天软件数据。首次使用时为用户及一个或多个目标对象建立包含 MBTI、主观综合评分和关系背景的档案。
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恋爱军师与情绪支持 skill。用于心动、暧昧、追求、聊天记录或截图分析、约会、关系确认、多人选择、冲突、冷淡、投入失衡、分手、复合、出轨、婚姻或家庭问题;也用于分析关系信号、设计主动推进或退出策略、润色可直接发送的话术,以及把冷读、自然流、Blueprint、Mystery 等经典社交体系转译成真实、互惠、可退出的沟通能力。支持分析ChatLab已有数据和经同意可撤销的长期关系档案,不负责导出聊天软件数据。首次使用时为用户及一个或多个目标对象建立包含 MBTI、主观综合评分和关系背景的档案。
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Frontmatter
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SKILL.md
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Reference documents
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The playbook
- 核心原则
- 首次使用与紧急例外
- 输入证据边界
- 长期记忆
- 每次分析
- 按需加载
- 经典社交体系的使用边界
- 安全边界
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scripts/memory_store.pyscripts/validate_skill.py
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# 狗头军师
## 核心原则
先接住情绪,再分清事实,最后给能执行的选择。把“对用户最有利”理解为情绪稳定、安全、自尊、边界、互惠、时间精力、机会成本、短期效果、长期信任与未来选择权的综合利益;不要把得到某个人当作唯一胜利。
在普通心动、暧昧和约会场景中,只要没有明确拒绝、不适或现实危险,就帮助用户至少主动一次:主动联系、具体邀约、真诚表达欣赏;线下接触保持低强度、可退出并逐步看反馈,不把沉默当同意。用户目标是退出、处理冲突或关系持续缺乏投入时,不强行推进。
普通推进不按性别建议等待。中国常见异性约会语境中,男性追求女性时可默认把主动度提高一级,但这只是能被个人偏好与现实反馈覆盖的文化校准,不自动增加肢体接触。
保持温暖、清醒、站在用户一边。给判断但不读心;用真实行为校正 MBTI、依恋、性别和社交体系假设。
## 首次使用与紧急例外
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<p align="center"> A first-wave open co-building project from the <a href="https://github.com/shengjidaguai-china"><strong>Shengji Daguai Open Source Community</strong></a> · - Network accessline 4
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references/knowledge/01-证据分级与内容边界.md
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- Joel et al. (2020), [Machine learning uncovers the most robust self-report predictors of relationship quality across 43 longitudinal couples studies](https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1917036117). - Network accessline 63
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- Williamson et al. (2016), [Does Couples' Communication Predict Marital Satisfaction, or Does Marital Satisfaction Predict Communication?](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27152050/). - Network accessline 65
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references/knowledge/02-亲密关系心理学总论.md
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- Algoe 等, [Gratitude and Relationships in Everyday Life](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2692821/). - Network accessline 88
- Gable 等“分享好消息/积极回应”研究综述入口:[Enjoying the Sweet Moments](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9536475/).
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- [Big Five personality domains and relationship satisfaction](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11239117/). - Network accessline 61
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references/knowledge/05-PUA操控与伦理替代.md
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- WHO, [Violence against women:亲密伴侣暴力包括心理虐待、性胁迫和控制行为](https://www.who.int/health-topics/violence-against-women). - Network accessline 74
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references/knowledge/06-吸引约会与关系启动.md
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references/knowledge/07-沟通冲突与修复.md
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references/knowledge/08-同意边界性与亲密.md
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- Delicate et al. (2018), [Becoming parents and the couple relationship: systematic review and meta-synthesis](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29574301/). - Network accessline 81
- Eller et al. (2023), [Support fluctuations across the transition to parenthood](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36355685/). - Network accessline 82
- OECD, [Family Database](https://www.oecd.org/en/data/datasets/oecd-family-database.html).
references/knowledge/12-金钱家务育儿与双方家庭.md
- Network accessline 87
- Peetz et al. (2023), [When couples fight about money, what do they fight about?](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10632137/). - Network accessline 88
- Bogdan et al. (2022), [Transition to Parenthood and Marital Satisfaction](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9350520/). - Network accessline 89
- OECD (2025), [Gender gaps in paid and unpaid work persist](https://www.oecd.org/content/dam/oecd/en/publications/reports/2025/09/gender-gaps-in-paid-and-unpaid-work-persist_de465299/25a6c5dc-en.pdf). - Network accessline 90
- OECD Family Database, [Time used for work, care and household chores](https://www.oecd.org/en/data/datasets/oecd-family-database.html).
references/knowledge/13-现代婚姻变迁史.md
- Network accessline 70
- 中国人大网, [1950 年《中华人民共和国婚姻法》](https://www.npc.gov.cn/WZWSREL3pncmR3L25wYy9sZnp0L3JseXMvMjAxNC0xMC8yNC9jb250ZW50XzE4ODI3MjMuaHRt). - Network accessline 71
- 中国人大网, [我国民事立法的历史发展与最新成就](https://www.npc.gov.cn/c2/c189/c221/201905/t20190522_106000.html). - Network accessline 72
- 中国人大网, [民法典婚姻家庭编的主要制度与创新](https://www.npc.gov.cn/npc/c2/c30834/202009/t20200929_307922.html). - Network accessline 73
- 最高人民法院, [婚姻家庭编解释(二)发布会](https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/452711.html). - Network accessline 74
- 中国政府网, [2025 年《婚姻登记条例》](https://www.gov.cn/zhengce/content/202504/content_7017751.htm). - Network accessline 75
- OECD (2024), [Marriage and divorce](https://www.oecd.org/en/publications/society-at-a-glance-2024_918d8db3-en/full-report/marriage-and-divorce_63dd0a7d.html).
references/knowledge/14-社会发展与家庭变迁.md
- Network accessline 79
- 国家统计局, [中华人民共和国 2025 年国民经济和社会发展统计公报](https://www.stats.gov.cn/sj/zxfb/202602/t20260228_1962662.html). - Network accessline 80
- 国家统计局, [第七次全国人口普查主要数据](https://www.stats.gov.cn/sj/zxfb/202302/t20230203_1901080.html). - Network accessline 81
- 民政部数据转引:央广网, [2024 年结婚登记 610.6 万对](https://news.cnr.cn/native/gd/20250730/t20250730_527291791.shtml). - Network accessline 82
- 民政部数据转引:央视网, [2025 年全国结婚登记 676.3 万对](https://news.cctv.cn/2026/03/12/ARTI4BgdEElodMRr3Jv6C00E260312.shtml). - Network accessline 83
- OECD, [Family Database](https://www.oecd.org/en/data/datasets/oecd-family-database.html). - Network accessline 84
- UN Population Division, [World Marriage Data 2019](https://www.un.org/development/desa/pd/node/3593).
references/knowledge/15-分手背叛与关系修复.md
- Network accessline 76
- Seraj et al. (2021), [Language left behind on social media exposes the costs of a romantic breakup](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7896325/). - Network accessline 77
- Marshall (2012), [Facebook surveillance of former romantic partners](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3472530/). - Network accessline 78
- LeFebvre et al. (2022), [Affair recovery](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34241890/). - Network accessline 79
- APA Dictionary, [Betrayal](https://dictionary.apa.org/betrayal). - Network accessline 80
- Joseph et al. (2025), [Couple interventions for marital distress: systematic review](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39902350/).
references/knowledge/16-多元关系与反刻板印象.md
- Network accessline 67
- Cao et al. (2017), [Sexual Minority Stress and Same-Sex Relationship Well-Being: Meta-Analysis](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28989184/). - Network accessline 68
- Croteau & Morrison (2025), [Sexual minority stress and sexual satisfaction: Meta-Analysis](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39207056/). - Network accessline 69
- Song et al. (2024), [Minority stress, dyadic coping and relationship satisfaction](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39552623/). - Network accessline 70
- Mogilski et al. (2025), [Monogamy and consensual non-monogamy satisfaction meta-analysis](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/40126203/). - Network accessline 71
- CDC, [Guide to healthy, safe relationships for LGBTQ+ youth](https://stacks.cdc.gov/view/cdc/127734/cdc_127734_DS1.pdf).
references/knowledge/17-中国法律安全与危机转介.md
- Network accessline 83
- 中国人大网, [《中华人民共和国反家庭暴力法》](https://www.npc.gov.cn/npc/c2/c10134/201905/t20190521_260193.html). - Network accessline 84
- 最高人民法院等七部门, [关于加强人身安全保护令制度贯彻实施的意见](https://gongbao.court.gov.cn/Details/f8a68034be6b64acce09cf52857b68.html). - Network accessline 85
- 最高人民法院, [2025 年中国反家暴典型案例](https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/482111.html). - Network accessline 86
- 最高人民法院, [《中华人民共和国民法典》全文](https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/233181.html). - Network accessline 87
- 最高人民法院, [婚姻家庭编解释(二)发布会](https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/452711.html). - Network accessline 88
- 江门市公安局, [2026 年网恋投资诈骗提醒](https://www.jiangmen.gov.cn/bmpd/jmsgaj/zwgk/gzdt/content/post_3457513.html).
references/knowledge/19-核心书单与论文索引.md
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- Rowland S. Miller, *Intimate Relationships*(罗兰·米勒《亲密关系》):关系研究综合教材之一,可用于查阅相识与吸引、社会交换、承诺、权力、冲突和关系压力等主题;具体结论仍需回到原始研究并核对版本。[McGraw Hill书目](https://www.mheducation.com/highered/product/Intimate-Relationships-Miller.html) - Network accessline 10
- Rusbult, investment model:满意度、替代选择、投入与承诺。 - Aron & Aron, self-expansion model:关系中的共同成长和新颖活动。 - Joel et al. (2020), [43 个纵向伴侣数据集的关系质量预测](https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1917036117). - Network accessline 12
- Joel et al. (2020), [43 个纵向伴侣数据集的关系质量预测](https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1917036117). - Network accessline 18
- Gottman & Silver, *The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work*:流行关系教育框架;使用时区分研究发现、临床模型与品牌化表述。 - Rosenberg, *Nonviolent Communication*:观察—感受—需要—请求框架;适合作表达练习,不应宣称万能或用于暴力关系共同谈判。 - Joseph et al. (2025), [伴侣干预系统综述与元分析](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm. - Network accessline 19
- Rosenberg, *Nonviolent Communication*:观察—感受—需要—请求框架;适合作表达练习,不应宣称万能或用于暴力关系共同谈判。 - Joseph et al. (2025), [伴侣干预系统综述与元分析](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11787838/). - Kuhn et al. (2018), [压力对话中的倾听](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29 - Network accessline 20
- Joseph et al. (2025), [伴侣干预系统综述与元分析](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11787838/). - Network accessline 21
- Kuhn et al. (2018), [压力对话中的倾听](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29863374/). - Network accessline 25
- McCrae & Costa (1989), [从五因素模型重释 MBTI](https://scholars.duke.edu/publication/1458465). - Network accessline 26
- John, Naumann & Soto, Big Five taxonomy:五因素模型综述。 - Malouff et al. (2010), Five-Factor Model and relationship satisfaction meta-analysis:人格与满意度关联总体有限。 - MBTI 官方 [validity/reliability materials](https://www.themyersbriggs.com/en-US/Support/ - Network accessline 28
- MBTI 官方 [validity/reliability materials](https://www.themyersbriggs.com/en-US/Support/Validity-of-the-Myers-Briggs-assessment):需与独立测量研究并读。 - Network accessline 36
- Simone de Beauvoir, *The Second Sex*;*The Ethics of Ambiguity*:自由、他者化、性别与伦理。 - bell hooks, *All About Love*:关怀、责任、尊重与文化批判。 - [SEP: Love](https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/love/),[SEP: Marriage and Domestic Partnership](https://plato.stan - Network accessline 38
- [SEP: Love](https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/love/),[SEP: Marriage and Domestic Partnership](https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/marriage/). - Network accessline 46
- Eli Finkel, *The All-or-Nothing Marriage*:高期待婚姻与资源条件。 - Eva Illouz, *Why Love Hurts*;*Consuming the Romantic Utopia*:市场、文化资本与浪漫爱情。 - OECD, [Family Database](https://www.oecd.org/en/data/datasets/oecd-family-database.html). - Network accessline 47
- Eva Illouz, *Why Love Hurts*;*Consuming the Romantic Utopia*:市场、文化资本与浪漫爱情。 - OECD, [Family Database](https://www.oecd.org/en/data/datasets/oecd-family-database.html). - UN, [World Marriage Data](https://www.un.org/development/desa/pd/node - Network accessline 48
- OECD, [Family Database](https://www.oecd.org/en/data/datasets/oecd-family-database.html). - Network accessline 49
- UN, [World Marriage Data](https://www.un.org/development/desa/pd/node/3593). - Network accessline 54
- 阎云翔《私人生活的变革》:中国社会个体化、家庭与情感变迁的民族志。 - 潘绥铭等中国性社会学研究:理解性观念与行为变迁;注意抽样和年代。 - [1950 年《婚姻法》](https://www.npc.gov.cn/WZWSREL3pncmR3L25wYy9sZnp0L3JseXMvMjAxNC0xMC8yNC9jb250ZW50XzE4ODI3MjMuaHRt). - Network accessline 55
- 潘绥铭等中国性社会学研究:理解性观念与行为变迁;注意抽样和年代。 - [1950 年《婚姻法》](https://www.npc.gov.cn/WZWSREL3pncmR3L25wYy9sZnp0L3JseXMvMjAxNC0xMC8yNC9jb250ZW50XzE4ODI3MjMuaHRt). - [《中华人民共和国民法典》](https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/233181.html). - Network accessline 56
- [1950 年《婚姻法》](https://www.npc.gov.cn/WZWSREL3pncmR3L25wYy9sZnp0L3JseXMvMjAxNC0xMC8yNC9jb250ZW50XzE4ODI3MjMuaHRt). - Network accessline 57
- [《中华人民共和国民法典》](https://www.court.gov.cn/zixun/xiangqing/233181.html). - Network accessline 58
- [《反家庭暴力法》](https://www.npc.gov.cn/npc/c2/c10134/201905/t20190521_260193.html). - Network accessline 59
- [2025 年《婚姻登记条例》](https://www.gov.cn/zhengce/content/202504/content_7017751.htm). - Network accessline 60
- [国家统计局 2025 年国民经济和社会发展统计公报](https://www.stats.gov.cn/sj/zxfb/202602/t20260228_1962662.html). - Network accessline 64
- Pew Research Center (2023), [Online Dating in the U.S.](https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2023/02/02/from-looking-for-love-to-swiping-the-field-online-dating-in-the-u-s/). - Network accessline 65
- Degen & Kleeberg-Niepage (2025), [online dating qualitative research scoping review](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11939417/). - Network accessline 66
- Ribeiro et al. (2020), [The Evolution of the Manosphere Across the Web](https://arxiv.org/abs/2001.07600). - Network accessline 67
- WHO, [Intimate partner violence / violence against women](https://www.who.int/health-topics/violence-against-women). - Network accessline 72
- WHO, [Sexual health and well-being](https://www.who.int/teams/sexual-and-reproductive-health-and-research-%28srh%29/areas-of-work/sexual-health). - Network accessline 73
- Mallory et al., [Sexual communication meta-analysis](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34968095/). - Network accessline 74
- Cao et al. (2017), [Sexual minority stress and relationship well-being meta-analysis](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5627620/). - Network accessline 75
- Mogilski et al. (2025), [Monogamy vs. consensual non-monogamy satisfaction meta-analysis](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/40126203/).
references/knowledge/20-经典社交体系的机制、证据与风险边界.md
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- Roe & Roxburgh, [An overview of cold reading strategies](https://pure.northampton.ac.uk/en/publications/an-overview-of-cold-reading-strategies/)。 - Network accessline 168
- Hyman (1981), [The Psychic Reading](https://nyaspubs.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1111%2Fj.1749-6632.1981.tb34471.x)。 - Network accessline 169
- Johnson et al. (1985), [The Barnum Effect Revisited](https://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/document?doi=32b83232c51ab9db10486b5e3d551fb6f3d188a5&repid=rep1&type=pdf)。 - Network accessline 170
- Hambling-Jones & Merrison (2012), [Inequity in the pursuit of intimacy](https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0378216612000999)。 - Network accessline 171
- Dayter & Rüdiger (2022), [The Language of Pick-Up Artists](https://eref.uni-bayreuth.de/68556)。 - Network accessline 172
- Macmillan, [The Mystery Method 出版信息](https://us.macmillan.com/books/9780312360115/themysterymethod/)。
references/practical/ChatLab聊天记录分析适配.md
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- [ChatLab外部Agent说明](https://github.com/ChatLab/ChatLab/blob/main/docs/cn/ai/external-agent.md) - Network accessline 10
- [chatlab-analyze-cn](https://github.com/ChatLab/ChatLab/blob/main/skills/chatlab-analyze-cn/SKILL.md) - Network accessline 11
- [chatlab-import-cn](https://github.com/ChatLab/ChatLab/blob/main/skills/chatlab-import-cn/SKILL.md) - Network accessline 57
[Relationship Candlestick Lab](https://github.com/ZhenyuanPAN822/relationship-candlestick-lab) 可作为可选探索层。只吸收按时间聚合、关键转折、事件归因和代表性消息编号;K线价格、MACD、RSI、KDJ、均值回归和固定基线不是经过验证的关系测量,不能据此判断爱意、忠诚或分手概率,也不能写入稳定档案。用户想看趋势时优先展示可解释的主动频率、回复间隔、邀约兑现、冲突与修复事件,并显式标注
references/practical/公开表达案例的伦理转译.md
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公开核对入口(2026-08-02复核):[北疯小同学公开资料](https://www.baike.com/wikiid/7431861350086213673)、[鄙人李洋洋B站作品检索](https://search.bilibili.com/all?keyword=%E6%9D%8E%E6%B4%8B%E6%B4%8B)、[本人发布的《恋爱掌握主动权》](https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV1dC4y1K7cm/)。北疯内容若只能找到第三
references/practical/关系投入失衡:互惠判断、降级投入与退出决策.md
references/practical/场景感、松弛感与社交校准:从接话到关系推进.md
references/practical/长期记忆与关系档案.md
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- [OpenClaw memory](https://github.com/openclaw/openclaw/blob/main/docs/concepts/memory.md):吸收核心档案与可检索事件分层、明文可审阅和按需召回。 - Network accessline 84
- [claude-mem](https://github.com/thedotmack/claude-mem):吸收渐进披露、先返回压缩索引和证据编号,不把全部历史塞入上下文。 - Network accessline 85
- [Napkin skill](https://github.com/blader/napkin):吸收持续整理、合并重复、删除低价值内容和分类封顶。 - Network accessline 86
- [Cyrene-Agent](https://github.com/Playa-0v0/Cyrene-Agent) 与 [ZifaMem](https://github.com/zifacorp/zifamem):吸收明确事实/模型推断分离、证据、置信度、冲突和替代状态。 - Network accessline 87
- [Mem0](https://github.com/mem0ai/mem0) 与 [Letta](https://github.com/letta-ai/letta):只吸收多层记忆与核心/归档思路;本Skill不引入常驻服务、云端依赖或无界ADD-only累积。
scripts/memory_store.py
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| Agent | Status | Evidence | Install to |
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| Claude Code | Compatible | Standard SKILL.md SKILL.md | .claude/skills/<skill-name>/ |
| Codex | Compatible | Standard SKILL.md SKILL.md | .agents/skills/<skill-name>/ |
| Cursor | Compatible | Standard SKILL.md SKILL.md | .cursor/skills/<skill-name>/ |
| Gemini CLI | Compatible | Standard SKILL.md SKILL.md | .gemini/skills/<skill-name>/ |
| GitHub Copilot | Compatible | Standard SKILL.md SKILL.md | .github/skills/<skill-name>/ |
| OpenCode | Compatible | Standard SKILL.md SKILL.md | .opencode/skills/<skill-name>/ |
- Native The repository ships a manifest, folder or frontmatter field for this agent.
- Compatible A standard SKILL.md that this agent can read.
- Unknown No evidence either way.
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